Friday, January 16, 2009
It's My Anniversary
So, sixteen years ago today, I walked down the aisle and said I do. I always say I would do it again, and I would, in a heartbeat.
That is a true measuring stick of life, would you go back and do it again. I would, but that is a tough measure. All the fights, the kids, the twins in the NICU, Tyler's emergency appendectomy, the loss of jobs, the moving, the chaos of four kids under the age of four. Through it all, I would do all of it again. I love my life, chaos and all.
If you change one thing, you could change it all. That just is not worth it. I want to learn from my mistakes and move forward. Looking back will never change the past, dwelling on it can ruin the present. Embrace the past, crud and all, I am positive you can find some silver lining in the chaos.
How many years have you been married? What what the single most thing that gave you an "AHA" moment?
God bless you and yours.